Field trip date

I venture over to the West Country for a date with an old friend, and wonder if getting out of London might be the way forward I had a date with an old friend last weekend, someone I once lived with in a big house share. We called it the orphanage on account of it… Continue reading Field trip date

Well that was 2022

Realising I have been on a break from dating for almost 5 months, I reflect on the year and try to achieve a balanced view of things.

Dating in Italy part II: burnout

I hang up my dating boots for a while after another disappointment. But what was the straw that broke the camel’s back? It was actually the much-missed ‘meeting someone in real life’ – who would’ve thought…

Inside the Tuscan sex club

I try out sex club for the first time – here’s how it went down The appeal My overarching philosophy on sex is fairly simple – people should do what makes them happy and not hurt anyone. If you continually seek new partners and experiences and you get into some pretty niche stuff, but you… Continue reading Inside the Tuscan sex club

Dating in Italy part I

Fragile egos, guys who won’t take no for an answer and rape jokes as flirty banter – I reflect on my first experiences of dating in Italy. Needless to say I’m a little disappointed..!

Two cranes and a snake

Read about my little pandemic rebound in full glorious detail – plus why I reconnected with the guy when he deceived me so badly

In praise of sober dating

Are you continuing dry January through February? Recently gone teetotal and wondering what this means for your love life? I advocate for sober dating and give you some of my top tips

My January roundup

What did I get up to this month? Well, quite a lot for one of the quietest dating months of the year! With first dates, a new app and navigating the man-children of London, it’s fair to say January was a mixed bag

The masseuse

My first post, hurrah! A story of sexy encounter from last summer, this gives you a good feel for your blogger and cheers me up on this grey winter day. Roll on summer…!