Welcome to my sex, dating and relationships blog!
I’m Vicky, a woman in my mid-thirties living in London, UK. I’m sober and I mainly date men.
I launched myself back into the dating pool in 2020 after leaving a long-term relationship. I had done some initial processing and was just gearing up to get back out there and date when Covid hit, and well, you know the rest…!
Things are almost back to normal again in London and I’m actively dating and exploring new terrain sexually and romantically.
Whereas my twenties love life was fifty shades of car crash, I’m older, wiser and determined to do things better this time around. I want to be more assertive, stretch myself to try new things, and to date more ‘mindfully’, to use a popular term.
Dating can be tough on the soul. It can also be exhilarating and enriching, not to mention hilarious. I share the highs, lows and laughs from my dating life here on my blog, with what I’m learning. Expect stuff on dating apps, dating skills, boundaries, self-worth and more besides.
I hope you enjoy reading and would love to hear about your experiences in the comments.
It’s wild out there guys. Let’s navigate this mad world together.
Why so secret squirrel?
I’m using my first name for now on account of my brilliant and rewarding but very sensible job.
Am I running the country, you wonder. Not yet…